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What to write in a card.
A birthday, a graduation, a loss, a new baby. This guide helps you write a few lines that make the person feel seen.
What’s inside
A few pages you can use this week.
Start with where they are
A graduation, a new baby, a retirement, and a loss each call for different words.
Find one memory
One specific memory shows them you were paying attention.
Four lines, every time
A shape that makes the blank card easy to fill.
Words for hard moments
What to write when someone has lost someone, and what to leave out.
Why it works
A few honest lines are enough.
A blank card can feel like a test. This guide uses the gather& method to turn it into a small act of attention: you notice something true about the person, and you tell them.
This guide is one small piece of gather&honor, our book, coming soon.
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